Christian online page creator shares five biblical attitudes to look out for in a marriage partner and questions to consider when evaluating one.
Biblical Attitudes To Look For
If you are a Christian looking for a husband or wife, @mindsetofthechurch shares these five questions to ask when searching for the biblical attitudes in a person.
Are they Godly?
The first question is, “Are they godly?” He explained, “I’m not necessarily asking if they go to church or believe in God. I would be considering, do they love Jesus Christ and do they love the local church?”
Many people go to church or claim to believe in God. However, genuine love for Jesus and the church is only found in those whose hearts are truly set on God.
Are they a hard worker?
The second question is, “Are they a hard worker?”
2 Thessalonians 3:10 says, “He who does not work, shall not eat.” “And so, if you’re a girl considering a guy, I wouldn’t know for absolute sure whether or not this guy works hard,” he said.
Do you enjoy his company?
The next question is, “Is there actual chemistry? Do you like being with them? Is there a joy and a fun of interacting with each other?”
@mindsetofthechurch went on to explain that “chemistry” between marriage partners is important because marriage is not a dry partnership. “It is a vibrant relationship. In amongst the seasons of life that are more difficult, you want to go through that season with someone that you actually enjoy.”
Are they teachable?
The fourth question is, “Are they teachable? Are there people in their life that they learn from? Can they learn from you? Or is it like pulling teeth trying to get them to listen to anybody else’s opinion other than their own?”
Are they a servant?
And the last question is, “Are they a servant?” Do they reflect Jesus’ heart in service?
He said, “The will of God for every single Christian is that we would lay down our life on the altar of service. And so, one of the main questions you can ask, as you ascertain, whether or not this individual is for you is are they serving others. Do they serve the church or do they live for themselves?”
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