Whitney Newby is a Christian influencer who shares encouragement for mothers who find it hard to navigate day-to-day life with kids. And recently, she shared 5 affirmations for struggling mothers.
Whitney Newby
According to her website, Whitney Newby “is a pastor’s wife, Charlotte Mason fan, and homeschooling mama to four incredible children. She has a Bible degree from Moody Bible Institute, is a registered nurse, and since 2018 she has enjoyed delving into homeschooling more than she ever could’ve imagined.”
Whitney Newby’s posts are often an encouragement for mothers who can relate with the day to day struggles of being a homemaker.
“Here are a handful of things I wish I could tell my younger self. I hope they’re an encouragement to you, too, in whatever season of motherhood you’re in,” she wrote in a recent post.
Here are her 5 Affirmations For Struggling Mothers:
1. Don’t feel guilty about rest.
“When the kids are napping in the afternoon, don’t feel bad about leaving the laundry or dishes to lie down or do something you enjoy. Even as they get older, a daily rest time will serve all of you well. And on the days it’s just impossible to take a break, remember that God is with you, he is for you, and he will be your strength when you’re feeling weak (see Isaiah 41:10).”
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2. Say yes to help.
“When a trusted older woman at church says, “I’d love to watch the kids so you can run errands one afternoon,” pull out your phone and put it on the schedule. It’s humbling to allow others to care for you, but so life-giving. We can’t do motherhood alone.
3. Limit sugar and screens.
“(This advice is more for you than the kids.) Keeping your blood sugar balanced will help your mood stay balanced, too. And putting down your phone in exchange for a book or a walk in the sun? Priceless.”
4. Follow-through matters.
“Let your “yes” be “yes” and your “no” be “no.” It may feel easier to just keep giving warnings and never follow through with discipline, but kids need boundaries. It’s worth it to say, “Yes, I’ll read a book to you,” and actually do it. Or, “No, sweetheart, I’ll have to take that away if you do that again,” and follow through. You’ll be so thankful years from now that your children know your words carry weight.”
5. These days are sweet, but so are the next.
“Well-meaning, older parents will tell you these days with tiny children fly by, and there’s nothing like them. And while this season is full of precious moments, believing that they’re the very best days you’ll ever have with your kids adds a lot of unnecessary pressure. Here’s what I now know: your love for and enjoyment of your kids only grows. So enjoy this day, but recognize that future days and years are really sweet, too.”
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