Recently, Pastor Vlad Savchuk shared about 20 ways a husband can show love to his wife.
He uses Ephesians 5:25–26 to show husbands how they can better love their wives.
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her. That He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word.” Ephesians 5:25-26
20 Ways a Husband Can Show Love to His Wife I
1. Buy her flowers
“God wants us to have this romantic passion and love in our marriage and one of them that helps that is buying flowers.”
2. Take her out on a date
“One pastor said, ‘If there will be more courting in our marriages, less of our marriages will be in courts.”
3. Open the car door
“It does show this respect, honor, and pursuit. And it’s beautiful.”
4. Load the dishes
“Show her love by doing some of these practical things like loading dishes.”
5. Be her photographer without complaining
“Appreciate her beauty, take the photo, and don’t complain.”
6. Compliment her on her looks and her character
“She wants to know she’s beautiful specifically to her husband. It doesn’t matter what other men think about her whether she’s beautiful or not.”
7. Take out the garbage
“Taking it right away shows your contribution to the family and that shows love.”
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8. Make it a habit to lift the toilet seat when using it and lower it afterward
9. Hold her hand in public
“I heard somebody say the reason why I hold my wife’s hand in the mall is for the economical purposes so she doesn’t run into the stores.”
10. Go for a walk without your phone
20 Ways a Husband Can Show Love to His Wife II
11. Kiss her more and hug her without expecting sex
12. Share about your day, not just in bullet points, but also share your feelings
13. Remember birthdays and anniversaries
14. Listen to understand, not just to respond
15. Pray for your wife and let her know you prayed for her
16. Share with your wife what the Lord spoke to you during your quiet time
17. Renew your marriage vows every ten years
18. Help your wife pursue her calling
19. Support her family and your in-laws
20. Provide for her financially
Watch the full video here:
Reference: Vlad Savchuk
Header image: Pastor Vlad [Vlad Savchuk]. YouTube, 13 February 2024, https://youtu.be/WeC4h0VoF44